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RESOLUTIONS: Get out in San Francisco

Experience the reality, possibilities of living in San Francisco at least once a wk. Have an original SF experience.

July 25 - July 31

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Experience the reality, possibilities of living in San Francisco at least once a wk. Have an original SF experience.
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RESOLUTIONS: One Day at a Time

One Day at a Time

July 25 - July 31

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For today, I will seek to live the livelong day positively without wishing to solve the problems of my life all at once.
For today, I will be happy in the certainty that I was created to be happy, not only in the other world but also in this one.
For today, I will adapt to circumstances, without requiring all circumstances to be adapted to my own wishes.
All my ancient twisted karma, from beginningless aversion, attachment, and delsution; born through body, speech, and mind; I now truly avow.
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RESOLUTIONS: Read/Review DBT 30 min every day

Explore DBT folder once a day

July 25 - July 31

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Mindfulness - Reasonable Mind, Wise Mind, Emotional Mind
Interpersonal Effectiveness
Distress Tolerance
Emotional Regulation
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HAPPINESS HACKS On: Attitude

To experience deep healing and high happiness it is imperative that we act to reduce our limiting beliefs and to replace them with powerful new positive beliefs. - Self Hypnosis

HAPPINESS HACKS On: Attitude

"we always have a choice about which beliefs will constitute the core of our reality." - Self Hypnosis, New Tools for Deep and Lasting Transformation

RESOLUTIONS: A - Acumulating Positive Emotions ("ABC Please")

-Build Positive Experiences NOW -Build a "LIFE WORTH LIVING" for the LONG TERM -Be mindful of POSITIVE EXPERIENCES -Be UNMINDFUL OF WORRIES

July 25 - July 31

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Build Positive Experiences NOW:
- DO PLEASANT THINGS THAT ARE POSSIBLE NOW
- INCREASE pleasant events that prompt positive emotions
- Do ONE THING each day from the Adult Pleasant Events Schedule
Build a
- FIGURE OUT AT LEAST ONE IMPORTANT LIFE VALUE and then makes a list of specific goals based on your valued priorities--Identify things you want to do, get, or increase (See Emotion Regulations Handout 12)
- ACCUMULATE POSITIVE ACTIONS toward your priorities and goals: 1. Select ONE goa to work on now. 2. List at least one task that has to be accomplished to get to the goal (a. Breake that task down into small steps toward the goal that you can take no
- ATTEND TO RELATIONSHIPS: -Repair old relationships. -Reach out for new relationships. -Work on current relationships. -End destructive relationships.
BE MINDFUL OF POSITIVE EXPERIENCES
-FOCUS attention on pisitive events and moments when they are happening
-REFOCUS your attention when your mind wanders to the negative
Be UNMINDFUL OF WORRIES: -When the positive experience will END. - Whether you DESERVE this positive experience. -How much more might be EXPECTED of you now.
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INSPIRATION BOARD

(2) "...Let the loved ones of God, whether young or old, whether male or female, each according to his capabilities, bestir themselves & spare no efforts to acquire the various current branches of knowledge, both spiritual and secular, & of the arts.

— Baha'u'llah

INSPIRATION BOARD

" …I most urgently request the friends of God to make every effort, as much as lieth within their competence, along these lines. The harder they strive to widen the scope of their knowledge, the better and more gratifying will be the result... (1)

— Baha'u'llah

PERSONAL COMMANDMENTS NVC

  • Practice NVC daily with myself

RESOLUTIONS: Body

How to feel best physically

July 25 - July 31

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Crystal work every day
4 blue bottles of water every day
yoga
tai chi chuan
weightlifting
cardio
acupuncture
vitamins
enough protein
green vegetables
read self-hypnosis book - stress
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RESOLUTIONS: Deepen Zen practice

strengthening connection to Zen Buddhist teachings

July 25 - July 31

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Do not kill
Do not steal
Do not lie
No intoxicants
No unlawful sexual intercourse
Do not speak ill of the past misdeeds of others
Not to praise oneself or disparage others
Do not give way to anger
Morning service http://sfzc.org/zc/display.asp?catid=1,10&pageid=441
Suzuki Roshi talks every two days http://suzukiroshi.sfzc.org/dharma-talks/
Read
zazen
visit City Center/Green Gulch once a month
Connect with contact from Zen center ever two weeks
Recite "Enmei Jukku Kannon Gyo"
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RESOLUTIONS: Building a Social Network/Support System

Identify people and what they would contribute to the support system/network. Do activities with them to bring them into your life.

July 25 - July 31

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Building a Social Network/Support System
Shahla B., Rana, Mayram(?), Shirin M., Nasim, Anne G., David Diehl, Sean
Listing what they add
Making contact with that perons
Having meaningful engagement with that person
Prayer about the relationship
Reiki around the situation of building a newtowrk
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RESOLUTIONS: Reiki

Nurture depth of Reiki conception, use, and knowledge. Let it pervade life. Transform passion and observations into action in the larger world.

July 25 - July 31

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Daily body reiki sessions
Reiki to water once a day
Reiki to plants every other day
Reiki to Ella once a day
Attend to mailings/EMAIL on Reiki - once a day
compile Reiki tweets on Social Oomph Saturday evenings
Contact John Alexander once a wk
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INSPIRATION BOARD

"Blessed is he who preferreth his brother before himself."

— Baha'u'llah

INSPIRATION BOARD

"Banish the word 'struggle' from your attitude and your vocabulary. All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration. We are the ones we have been waiting for." — Hopi elders

— Hopi elders

INSPIRATION BOARD

Whatever hath befallen you, hath been for the sake of God. This is the truth, and in this there is no doubt. You should, therefore, leave all your affairs in His Hands, place your trust in Him, and rely upon Him. He will assuredly not forsake you. In

— Baha'u'llah

INSPIRATION BOARD

Visualization/Priming-2

Visualization/Priming-2

mid ideal body type

RESOLUTIONS: Priming every morning

Priming every morning

July 25 - July 31

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Priming every morning
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LISTS Creativity

  1. Reiki (doing reiki - body, water, energy bowls) (Healthy Reiki tweets)
  2. Sex
  3. Ceramics/Pottery? (Photography?)
  4. Playing a dynamic part in the Baha'i Faith

PERSONAL COMMANDMENTS Be only around people that ADD things/value to your life

  • Be only around people that ADD things/value to your life

HAPPINESS HACKS On: Attitude

Focus on the positive - in and under all circumstances.

RESOLUTIONS: Build Connection to Baha'i Faith/belief in God

Increase positive contacts, meet need of being cared for by a community, intellectual stimulation; spiritual strengthening, stretching, challenging, and growth. As part of my observance of the Fast

July 25 - July 31

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Spend more recreational time with Baha'is
Read the Tablet of Ahmad every morning
Say medium obligatory prayer every day
Meditation
Attending a Baha'i event
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RESOLUTIONS: Emotional Regulation: Reducing Vulnerability to Negative Emotions

How to stay out of Emotion Mind: remember the term "ABC Please"

July 25 - July 31

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A-Accumulate Positive Emotions - accumulate positive experiences, events and valued actions to build a wall between you and the sea of emotional dyscontrol
B-Bulid Mastery: Do things that make you feel competent and effective, as a line of defense against helplessness and hopelessness
C-Cope ahead of time with emotional situations: Rehearse a plan ahead of times o that you are prepared to cope skillfully with emotional situations
"Please": PLease TAKE CARE OF YUR MIND BY TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY
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INSPIRATION BOARD

Visualization/Priming

Visualization/Priming

Body type