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The Happiness Project Book!
The book The Happiness Project will be released by Harper in January 2010. Stay tuned for more information!
The Resolutions tool is the most important tool in the Happiness Project Toolbox. It allows you to commit to a resolution in writing and to track your progress. Frequently reviewing your resolutions keeps them uppermost in your mind, and scoring yourself gives you visible feedback. One suggestion: by framing a resolution as a concrete action ("Rent a movie once a week") instead of an abstract goal ("Have more fun") and by holding yourself accountable, you're more likely to make progress.
If you make your Resolutions public, you can inspire other people, as well.
RESOLUTIONS: social
March 14 - March 21
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| title | 14 · sun | 15 · mon | 16 · tue | 17 · wed | 18 · thu | 19 · fri | 20 · sat |
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| family time - meg/owen | |||||||
| mary v/nancy j-c | |||||||
| join audobon | |||||||
| friend time |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: mental/spiritual/emotional
enjoy the moments
March 14 - March 21
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| title | 14 · sun | 15 · mon | 16 · tue | 17 · wed | 18 · thu | 19 · fri | 20 · sat |
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| practice letting go of things that are bothering me | |||||||
| focus on the positive/let go of negative | |||||||
| meditate daily | |||||||
| check one thing off to-do list | |||||||
| work on trusting |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Exercise
Continue to exercise - weights twice per week, cyclefit once, run twice (or substitute with a bike) - yoga and squash are extra
March 21 - March 27
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| title | 21 · sun | 22 · mon | 23 · tue | 24 · wed | 25 · thu | 26 · fri | 27 · sat |
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| Exercise 4 to 5 times per week, plus yoga and squash | |||||||
| Do yoga with Brennan | |||||||
| Do squash with Eric |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Slow down more
Life feels too frantic at night. The kids complain. Need to relax more and connect more.
March 21 - March 27
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| title | 21 · sun | 22 · mon | 23 · tue | 24 · wed | 25 · thu | 26 · fri | 27 · sat |
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| Go out one evening per week for adult social reasons | |||||||
| Try to leave work by 5:00, 5:30 at latest | |||||||
| Plan fun activities on weekends |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Eat a healthier diet
The wine and some food is excessive. Need to get this under control for me and for the kids.
March 21 - March 27
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| title | 21 · sun | 22 · mon | 23 · tue | 24 · wed | 25 · thu | 26 · fri | 27 · sat |
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| Keep a food diary | |||||||
| No alcohol except (1) when out, (2) one on LOST nights, (3) Sat/Sun (but consider not if just an evening at home) | |||||||
| Pack healthy lunches for kids | |||||||
| Cut up fruit for breakfast for kids when I'm home in am | |||||||
| Healthy dinners |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Yoga
With the help of my Wii Yoga "instructor," 30 minute routine.
RESOLUTIONS: Meditate
Morning and bedtime, during the day, too; whenever you can think to BREATHE!
March 14 - March 21
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| title | 14 · sun | 15 · mon | 16 · tue | 17 · wed | 18 · thu | 19 · fri | 20 · sat |
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| Metta in the morning | |||||||
| May whatever arises during the day, serve to awaken this Heart-Mind | |||||||
| Progressive relaxation at bedtime: "Be at ease, rest well" |
- average this week: 29% positive!
- all time average: 1% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Aprils rules
I would like to lose 100lbs by this time next year. Oh how it would be nice to fit into those size 6's again. Every month gets new set of rules, and every month i work on bettering myself.
April 28 - May 4
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| title | 28 · wed | 29 · thu | 30 · fri | 01 · sat | 02 · sun | 03 · mon | 04 · tue |
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| No more buying lunch at work | |||||||
| Start drinking more green tea | |||||||
| Work on a nightly routine |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Act like you are already that person
Act like the sort of person I admire
March 14 - March 21
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| title | 14 · sun | 15 · mon | 16 · tue | 17 · wed | 18 · thu | 19 · fri | 20 · sat |
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| Be positive | |||||||
| Be patient | |||||||
| Be lighthearted | |||||||
| Be fun | |||||||
| Be encouraging | |||||||
| Be helpful | |||||||
| Be generous | |||||||
| Keep calm | |||||||
| Be kind | |||||||
| Listen | |||||||
| Be a 'can do' person | |||||||
| Follow through |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!
RESOLUTIONS: Energy
Feel good!!
March 14 - March 21
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| title | 14 · sun | 15 · mon | 16 · tue | 17 · wed | 18 · thu | 19 · fri | 20 · sat |
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| Eat food. Not too much, mainly plants | |||||||
| Exercise at least 30 minutes | |||||||
| Drink at least 2L of water | |||||||
| No more than two glasses of wine | |||||||
| Tackle AT LEAST ONE THING on the BIG to-do list | |||||||
| Act energetic |
- average this week: 0% positive!
- all time average: 0% positive!

